The first feeling of being lonely

When you first realize you might never hear from them. Those memories creep more and more in your head. That feeling of being lonely. Even when you have so many people around you. In a room full of people who are paying attention to you but you still feel so lonely.

Realizing your plans don’t include them anymore. Realizing your never going to see their name pop up on your phone. Realizing they won’t even look at your social media posts anymore. Realizing they probably won’t even think of you or feel what your feeling.

The lonely feeling.

-sip on that

“The time you feel lonely is the time you most need to be by yourself. Life’s cruelest irony.” —

Douglas Coupland

And just like that

It’s over. It’s finished. You let it sink it and realize you won’t hear from them anymore. But then you start remembering you barely heard from them when you were “together”. Then you start uncovering the truths about what he/she was doing behind your back. What your gut was telling you was true all along.

You start replaying what was told to you. You start realizing how it was all a lie.

If this ever happened to you just remember, your not the weak one, they are.

-sip on that

Trust your gut. You know yourself, so don’t let somebody else tell you who you are.

Tatiana Maslany

Why me?

I feel like we always ask this question. Whether it’s just inside our heads or whispering to ourselves. Heck! I’ve even screamed it- when I was alone crying. Is the universe out to get me? I have found myself in the dark meditating asking the universe when I would finally get my happiness and attempted to open up to positive vibes.

What is the point of these lessons? Every hurt that I keep receiving.

Are some people just meant to be alone? I push everyone away.

I sometimes feel like I am the only one feeling this. But in reality I’m not. I think after you finally come to the realization that once you put your future into perspective, once you picture what you want your future to look like. Maybe you’ll manifest.

Go get that man/woman, go get that job, go get that house and whatever it is do it with your heart and eyes open. Don’t let your mind get to you. All the over thinking, it isn’t worth it. Just follow your gut. If your gut is telling you something is wrong, then something is wrong. Your heart might not want to believe it. But, please honey, save yourself.

-sip it all in.

When is liking to much?

Let’s be honest, social media is a big deal nowadays. But what happens when it mixes in with your relationship. I for one know for a fact it has happened before with me. You see your significant other like a picture of another girl who is the complete opposite of what you are/look like. You then get this gut wrenching feeling in the pit of your stomach and you want to just cry. Then the questions fill your mind, “am I enough?” “Should I change my hair color?” “Should I start to work out?” “Do I need bigger boobs?”

Then you confront them and you get hit with the “oh it’s just a like it doesn’t mean anything”. It doesn’t? So you mean to tell me you liked that bikini picture because the color of the suit was nice? Or you just wanted to give her likes because come on who doesn’t want likes on instagram! BULLS***! They still will continue to do it.

OKAY ladies, so how do we deal with it? Do we just put it off and train our brains to be okay with it. That isn’t always easy. Then you start to ask people for advice. Some agree and some disagree. “Well guys are very vivid when it comes to pictures”. But where’s the respect? When does the line get crossed?

Maybe some of us are just insecure.

                                                      – take a sip of that.

Come sip your coffee with me,

You are significant.

Let me introduce myself. My name is Danielle. Lets take a dive into the relationship realm and explore it together.